* select_conv2d -> create_conv2d
* added create_attn to create attention module from string/bool/module
* factor padding helpers into own file, use in both conv2d_same and avg_pool2d_same
* add some more test eca resnet variants
* minor tweaks, naming, comments, consistency
* always apply attention in SelectKernelConv, leave MixedConv for no attention alternative
* make MixedConv torchscript compatible
* refactor first/previous dilation name to make more sense in ResNet* networks
* ResNet torchscript compat
* output_stride arg supported to limit network stride via dilations (support for dilation added to Res2Net)
* allow activation layer to be changed via act_layer arg